如何礼貌地说“不”_礼貌用语论文

如何礼貌地说“不”_礼貌用语论文

怎样礼貌地说“No”,本文主要内容关键词为:地说论文,礼貌论文,此文献不代表本站观点,内容供学术参考,文章仅供参考阅读下载。

生活中有时我们会不赞成他人的意见,有时不得不拒绝别人的要求,这时除了“No”外,还有许多表示否定的用语,如:

Not quite.不完全如此。

Not yet.还没有。

I can’t believe it.我不相信。

Just the other round.正相反。

其中有些表示否定的用语语气比较强烈,如:

By no means.决不。

Certainly not.当然不是。

Of course not.当然不。

Impossible.不可能。

You must be mistaken.您一定是搞错了。

对于这些表示否定或异议的用语,英语学习者应该注意使用场合,慎重使用。如使用不当,会触怒交际对方或令其不悦,从而影响交流和沟通的顺利进行。在语言交际中,我们可以使用一些插入语或感叹词来使表示否定或异议的语气有所减弱,以示礼貌。常见的套语有如下几种:

1.Well,I’m afraid...这个,恐怕……

——Well you come to my house for tea this Friday afternoon?

——Well,I’m afraid I can’t.Mary and I are to see afilm on Friday afternoon.

2.Oh,I’m afraid...哦,恐怕……

——Would you please give me a special discount?

——Oh,I’m afraid I can’t possibly do it.

3.To tell the truth,...老实说,……

——What do you think of the itinerary,Mr.Smith?

——To tell the truth,my tour members are not at all happy about the travel arrangements for this China tour.

4.Personally,...就我个人而言,……

——Ann failed to keep her new job because she was too lazy.

——Personally,I don’t agree with you.

5.As lsee it...我认为,……

——Let’S go back home by taxi.

——As I see it,we’d better take bus instead.The traffic is most convenient at this time of the day,you know.

6.I would say...我想说……

——Tom is so poor that he has no money for supper today.

——I would say he’s not so much poor as careless with money.

7.Oh,I don’t know.It seems to me that...哦,我不知道,好像……

——Tom,our local guide seems unhappy with our requests.

——Oh,I don’t know.It seems to me that he is doing his best to serve us well.

8.There’s something in what you say,but...你说的不无道理,但是……

——Poverty exists because our society is an unequal one.

——There’s something in what you say,but some people lack the virtues of thrift,honesty,and a taste or hard work.All this should be responsible for their poverty.

9.But don’t you think...?但你不认为……?

——Someone’s stolen my gold watch.It can only be one of the hotel staff.You know,they are the only people who can enter the rooms freely.

——Exactly,but don’t you think the hotel would be very careful with whom they entrust this freedom?

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